[civsoc-mw] removed, goodbye - Re: (no subject)

Wed Sep 30 06:10:27 CAT 2020

Tre,
What you were doing was not decency. That was kissing up. What men do akamakonza kapansi kuti kammwamba kaphululuke. There were times it looked like she was just jerking your chain

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From: trevor chimimba <trevorchimimba at gmail.com>
To: Stanley Nazombe <stanley.nazombe at verizon.net>
Cc: civsoc-mw at sdnp.org.mw <civsoc-mw at sdnp.org.mw>
Sent: Tue, Sep 29, 2020 11:18 pm
Subject: Re: [civsoc-mw] removed, goodbye - Re: (no subject)

Inu bambo Nazombe, 
Treating each other with decency is not treating with kid gloves. .., (having seen what I have just finished watching on TV just now, this is all can say: holy cow what was that?)

On Sep 29, 2020, at 9:33 PM, Stanley Nazombe <stanley.nazombe at verizon.net> wrote:

Tre,Those women who want to shoot the breeze on this forum, they will come. It wont be because they would be treated with kid gloves, they would roll  down  with the men in the mud in the exercise of unfettered freedom of speech.  I remember in Chanco when the tennis community was being forced to  set up something so as to attract more women to the game. The effort was futile because it was the same women  who played before, the ones who didn't care whether it was all  men at the tennis courts, who kept coming to play.

-----Original Message-----
From: trevor chimimba <trevorchimimba at gmail.com>
To: civsoc-mw at sdnp.org.mw
Sent: Tue, Sep 29, 2020 7:26 pm
Subject: Re: [civsoc-mw] removed, goodbye - Re: (no subject)

keyboard. Are you guys  Martians or what? What happens here is a microcosm of our society. These are very  things we need to change. We act here like we are at a counter at a pub not at home where the chatting is congenial. 
Some of us use pseudonyms and act like some drunkard peeing at some children’s picnic. This environment is not inviting for women to participate generally (we are constantly inviting them to leave). Moreover, there are more user friendly platforms that the (younger) women are more comfortable to use. We are are dinasaurs here. 

On Sep 29, 2020, at 4:53 PM, Keyboard Boyd Kilembey <kkilembe at gmail.com> wrote:

Kpd blame it on moderators that there is no 51% representation of women on the forum. Maybe legislation should be made to enforce this.
On Tue, 29 Sep 2020, 19:06 KPD, <maluwakpd at gmail.com> wrote:

This is what we have been discussing. Gender equality.
Check how many women are active in any of the discussion groups? I have seen only 3. Martha, Nini and Faustus(not sure of the spelling)
Now that Nini is gone we have only 2 women. No single woman vigorously contributed to the gender equality discourse. It was all men. Men want to campaign for women empowerment when they are unable to change the environment that cultural practices that stifle women emancipation.
The wise gurus will come up with legislation. They will say we  need an act that should make membership to any discussion group 60:40.
The question is, where are the women? No application is required to be a member of a discussion group and the few we have want to unsubscribe.
This has been my argument all along. Having an act of parliament without analysing or changing certain norms and beliefs is a waste of time.
On Tue, 29 Sep 2020, 17:54 Dr P Nyirenda, <paulos at sdnp.org.mw> wrote:

On 29 Sep 2020 at 14:27, Nini Sulamoyo wrote:

> 
> Surely someone can remove me. I am no longer interested to participate on the forum.

Removed, goodbye.

Regards,

Dr Paulos B Nyirenda
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> Nini Brenda Sulamoyo-Ruebush
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