[civsoc-mw] {Disarmed} RE: Women demo on equality.

Fri Oct 9 14:44:21 CAT 2020

I didn't mean it that way. I wouldn't even say women have been denied
anything. I meant women need to be abrasive and go out to grab things.
Arguments like elect me because I am a woman (Tamara harris) or defaulting
to the woman argument as did Amayi hardly adds legitimacy to the gender
fight. They will continue to be perceived weakly. Let them be lawyers,
soldiers, bouncers, grave diggers, truck drivers, katundu "boys" etc. Let
them obfuscate the "differences". Unfortunately gender equality is narrowly
perceived in terms of white collar jobs and niches. That should not be the
narrow focus of gender adherents.

On Fri, 9 Oct 2020, 14:27 Dunstain Mwaungulu, <dfmwaungulu at googlemail.com>
wrote:

> It will take 3000 years for WE MEN to remedy the injustice we have caused
> to WOMEN! So to argue that women should grab opportunities and resources
> from which they have been deprived for all these years in a world where men
> have had a head start is diabolical to say the least. I am not expecting
> this proposition from people who should know better.
>
> On Fri, 9 Oct 2020, 13:18 Keyboard Boyd Kilembey, <kkilembe at gmail.com>
> wrote:
>
>> You are right my friend. My feeling is that women should not expect
>> things to be thrown at them. They must go out to grab. We even see it on
>> the forum. How many supported Seodi white when she was fired on the same
>> rules that saw Chikhosi being spc? I was the only one and I am not a woman.
>> Women should be prepared to slug it out openly if they would be taken
>> seriously. Payere payere.
>>
>> On Fri, 9 Oct 2020, 13:10 KPD, <maluwakpd at gmail.com> wrote:
>>
>>> KBK,
>>>
>>> It is high time men take their standard a notch up. This idea of
>>> believing in marrying a traditional woman or a woman with 'traditional"
>>> values is backward.
>>>
>>> In fact a woman who can not challenge you in conversation is boring and
>>> leads to a dead marriage. It's time we let the women advise or lead in
>>> conversation in our homes.
>>>
>>> Zokhala ndi mkazi omangoti "eeh a munanga" stifles marriage development.
>>> Mchifukwa chake amuna ambiri amapita kunja ndi akazawo banja limatha.
>>>
>>> Society should move forward for our women to have space.
>>>
>>> On Fri, 9 Oct 2020, 11:53 Keyboard Boyd Kilembey, <kkilembe at gmail.com>
>>> wrote:
>>>
>>>> That is a good strategy and it seems to be working. Girls these days
>>>> seem to be mote assertive, focussed and have hunger for success than the
>>>> boys  . Just ensure it is not over done. It may cause discord in society.
>>>>
>>>> On Fri, 9 Oct 2020, 11:44 Agnes Chimbiri, <agnes.chimbiri at undp.org>
>>>> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>> This is also happening now when we develop and implement girls’
>>>>> education programs that do not involve boys. So we should ensure that our
>>>>> programs include male involvement strategy.
>>>>>
>>>>>
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>>>>>  I went to Chanco in 1976, when it came to marks, gender never
>>>>> existed. I remember boys ganging to impregnate one very sharp girl, in
>>>>> order to drop-out( Was too Young). So have things gone bad/backwards
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